For my opinion over 99.99% of failures are because of negative thinking.Negative mind may made someone to move to the way of failure or lead them to darkness.Negative thinking is actually one kind of influence.When people was in a horrible situation,most of us will think negatively.
For example,what kind of performance would your car deliver if every morning before you left for work you scooped up a double handful of dirt and put it into your crankcase?That fine engine would soon be a mess, unable to do what you want it to do.Negative, unpleasant thoughts deposited in your mind effect your mind the same way.Negative thoughts produce needless wear and tear on your mental motor.They create worry, frustrution, and feelings of inferiority.They put you beside the road while others drive ahead.
Confident, successful people, on the other hand,"don't give it another thought."Successful people specialize in putting positive thoughts into their memory bank.To be a succesful person "THINK POSITIVELY"
After my wife, Margaret and I had been married for four or five years, we went to a conference for pastors where I had been asked to be one of the speakers. Margaret also agreed to do a breakout session for spouses. Speaking is not a passion for her as it is for me. She does a good job, but she doesn't really enjoy it that much. I wanted to support her, so I attended her session.
During the Q and A time, a woman stood up and asked, "Does John make you happy ?"
I have to say, i was really looking forward to hearing Margaret's answer. I'm an attentive husband, and I love Margaret dearly. What kind of praise would she lavish on me ?
"Does John make me happy?" she considered. "No he doesn't"
I looked to see where the closest exit was
"The first two or three years we were married," she continued, "I thought it was John's job to make me happy. But he didn't. He was a good husband. But nobody can make another person happy. That is my job."
Nobody can make another person happy. That is my job.
"Men are not prisoners of fate, only prisoners of their own mind" ~ Frankline Roosevelt
"Men are not creatures of circumstances; circumstances are creatures of man" ~ Benjamin Disraeli
An independent ninety-two-year-old lady was moving into a nursing home. She waited in the lobby of the facility for a long time before finally being told that her room was ready. As she was escorted down the corridor, her attendant described the room, down to the curtains hung on the windows.
"I love it," the elderly lady enthused.
"But you haven't seen the room yet. Just wait," the attendant responded.
"That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied. "Happiness of something you decide ahead of time. Whether i like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furnitures are arranged. It's how i arrange my mind."
How have you arrange your mind in response to life ?
I got this from a book.It said if the dream that we want to achieve doesn't achieve even though we had try very very hard and it still FAIL.Try a new DREAM.
But for me I think it is pretty hard.I cant imagine if my dream that i had tried so hard to make it real doesn't comes true.I will say bye bye to this world and rest in peace(Hahahaha.......just kidding.Be positive thinking please...><)
When i attend my math class,our math teacher told us an interesting story.It is a conversation between father and his son.For me i think the teacher told us this story is because our topical test result is not good enough.He said our main weak point is when we face questions that we can only solved half of it,we will stop and going for other questions.That's why our marks are low.
The story is about a son bringing his father back home.On the way back home,the sky are black and it seems like going to have a heavy rain..The son still drive and drive and drive.He saw there are heavy rain in front of them so he asked his Papa
Son:Papa you are not in a hurry so may us just stay here and wait the rain go away??
Papa:No son.Just keep going.
So the son just obey his Papa and keep going.Suddenly the son start singing a song
Son:Rain, rain, go away.
Come again another day.
Little Johnny wants to play.
Rain, rain, go to Spain.
Do not show your face again.
Papa:What the f*** are you singing.Stop that.Just remain silence and keep going.
Son:Oops,sorry dad i just want the rain to go away.(Erm...start from the son singing that Nursery rhyme,i added it myself.The teacher didn't say this part.Hahaha)
After ten minutes, the son cannot stand anymore of this heavy rain.So he asked again his Papa.
Son;Dad, the rain is too big.I think we have to take break a on the side of the road first.
Papa:No son.Just keep going.
Then, the son just keep drive, drive, drive, drive and drive.
When he was driving, he saw a lot of cars parking at the side of the road to wait for the rain to stop.
This time he asked his Papa again.
Son:Shall we.........??
Papa;No son.Just keep going.
The son had made a decision to drive slowly and not to ask anything again.
Finally, he had drive out of the raining area.Now, the Papa ask his son.
Papa;Do you know why i just call you to keep going??
Son;Yes dad.You want me to keep trying/going even we face problem.
Papa;Good job son.Now you can see those driver who stop at the side of the road are still in the heavy rain.They will still stuck there if they do not keep going.
What I want to write is SOMETIMES when people facing problems they may think that they are facing bad things.They will try to evade the problems.Solutions are used to overcome those problems.Every ones know right?What I want to discuss here is don't scare them(problems) because "Bad Things May Not Be Bad,It May Be Good,Good Things May Not Be Good,It May Be Bad" I would like to share one story with you guys. Once upon a time there was an old farmer and his son.The old farmer had a fast horse.He like his horse so much.He even sleep with his horse twice a week.In the beautiful morning,his beloved horse was gone.He tried his best to find out where did his horse was gone.His son and the old man searched for it day by day.He pray to god so that the horse may come back in safe.One week later,the horse came back.It brought another fast horse back.The old farmer was very happy.He told his son to take good cares both of the horse.The old man's neighbours this time came to congratulate him.But he said,"This may turn out to be bad."One day the old man's son went out riding the new fast horse.The horse ran too fast and his son fell down and broke his leg, became crippled and handicapped.Let me pause here.Now keep your mind clean and think about the incident.Does it good or bad?If you got the answer,keep your answer in your mind.
Let us continue the story,
Years later,the country was at war with its neighbours.All abled youths were drafted to become soldiers.Many of the youths died in that war except the old man's son.
So what do you think,it is a good things?? HERE,I want to say is not every bad things have a wonderful ending.The meaning of this passage is do not face a problem with a negative thinking.Bad things maybe good.How good it is have to see how you settle the problems........:)
Oops!!I think i had forgot to introduce myself Name:Mervyn Ling Chi Yang Age:16 Sex:oF course male la（haha） Lives in:Sibu,Sarawak I'm a poor boy. Poor because do not have money.(bo lui) Poor because noob in study. Poor because do not have girlfriend. Poor because noob in looking. Eventhough i'm poor but i believe that God Has Been Awfully Good To Me ,I Have Never Had Any Reason To Complain.
My english is not very good and I don't know what to write on my blog.
When I'm creating my blog, something blocked me.
It was the blog title. I think untill my head wanna burst (haha!too exaggerating)So, I decided to ask my friend. But he told me that it was my blog. He said: "If I tell you the title hor, it doesn't reflect you".
Then I made a title according to this question :
"What do you want readers to get from your blog? Entertainment? Knowledge? Motivation?"
I hope my title really fits with what I write in the future.
HERE,I would like to thank one of my friend, Joshua because it was him that made me wanna start blogging. He told me the advantages of writing blog that we may share things through blogs. I had read other peoples' blogs and they attracted me to start writing one myself.
I hope what I write in the future is the reflection of them... ~^^~
